We are social beings. Someone outside of your family can tell lies because they hate you, so that because they hate your good social position and your success, they can make trouble in your family. They will separate you from your family, wish you harm, and put all kinds of ideas in your head, knowing that you are listening to other people, knowing that you are impressionable.
Not all people are well-intentioned, and there are people who find emotional satisfaction in even turning against their family. As a rule of thumb, no one in your first-degree family wishes you harm. But people can have moments when they are wrong towards you, even being from the family, themselves being the victim of those who want to harm you, and then they use them.
For this reason, it is good to distinguish between what is good and what is not good. Even if you do something crazy, make sure it stays within the limits. I mean, you can do Bunji-jumping, or other extreme things, other crazy things, like the rally, but harming a loved one only comes from the outside.
Let me give you an example. Someone told a friend that his mother was rich and full of money, knowing that he had a hard time with money, so the mother’s son hated the mother-in-law and terrorized her constantly. The enemies were sitting on the touchline and laughing. Whether it was a lie or whether it was true, the son was being set up by his enemies to harm the family. But it was most likely a small thing, and if it was true, and his mother really did have a lot of money, he needed it to do a complex operation without which he would have died.
Knowing that the son would not believe her, and that he was well set up by the enemy of the family, the mother hid the money from her son, knowing that he would not believe her that he needed to seek health.
Update: The important thing is to forgive, because there is karma, and all the evil will fall back on them